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What is gratitude? It is a way of looking at things: if you don’t know what it is to be homeless, remember to be grateful to have a roof, to know where you will sleep, even if the home isn’t spotless and tidy. If you don’t know what it is to be bedridden, be grateful for being able to take a walk outside even if it is windy and people are grumpy on the road. And if you are too sick to go outside, remember that you can enjoy the beauty laying outside your windows, and notice the little details that make life tell you the seasons.

There is always a silver lining to every situation. When something goes wrong, let us think about what it is teaching us so that we can change it the next time it will surface. An obstacle is an opportunity, not a curse. We shouldn’t be always noticing what is broken, who got this wrong and what needs to be done or what is missing in our lives. Let us teach our children that there is a blessing in every situation even if it is hidden from our sight. They will play looking for it and be rewarded when they realize how a bad situation turned into a blessing.

Gam zu letova!

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Shana Tova!

pomegranate close-up If you cut open a pomegranate, you’ll find hundreds of juice sacs, in the shape of a nearly perfect star. In many cultures, the fruit symbolizes fertility and abundance, Jewish tradition included.

On Rosh Hashanah, we eat the pomegranate, which is one of the seven fruits of ancient Israel. It can fulfill the commandment to eat a fruit for the first time in the year. A kabbalistic tradition claims that the pomegranate contains exactly six-hundred-thirteen seeds, which corresponds to the number of mitzvoth in the Torah.

I challenge you to count them! I never managed to. And this year, to my utter disappointment, I haven’t been able to find any pomegranate to put on my Rosh Hashanah dinner table, and that’s why I am publishing this instead, to compensate for the lack of the perfect fruit: when eating the pomegranate on Erev Rosh Hashanah I have the habit of hoping for the chance to perform as many good deeds as the pomegranate has seeds!

יהי רצון מלפנך יהוה אלהנו ואלוהי אבותינו שנרבה זכיות כרמון

May it be your will Adonai, our God and God of our ancestors that our merits increaseas the seeds of a pomegranate.

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Actually, this is about the Religious School STARS program. STARS stands for Shabbat Together & Religious School. It is our incentive program designed to encourage student participation in our Friday evening services. Here is how it works: attend the same number of services as the grade you are in and you will be eligible to participate in the STARS party, that takes place at the end of the religious school year in May.

So if you are in Grade 4, attend four Friday Shabbat services, remember to sign in with the register book that is in the Youth Lounge (otherwise known as the… b..right red room!), if you are in Grade 5, attend five, and so on. If you are in Kindergarten, well, attend one service, like in first grade!

It is not that difficult, I promise, there are fifty four shabbat services in a year, well, maybe not in the school year, but you should really try and attend, with your family, I am sure you will enjoy and why not start a new habit, to mark the end of a busy week, and take a real break in the frenzy of all activities. It does help to replenish, gather energy and reach the level of stars!

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Jewels of Elul VI

http://www.jewelsofelul.com/

Every day of this month is bringing us closer to the High Holidays and the end of the summer vacation, which seems to increase the pressure in some sort. When I think that summer camp is ending soon and will be bringing my boys back home for entire days before they start school again, I fear that I will never be ready on time, given the endless list of to-do’s.

So I look for inspiration, for energy, for tips and advices, for all age wisdom, because after all, this time of the year comes regularly and I have survived it always… so far!

Every year, for the past decades, I have loved – and dreaded at the same time – preparing for this holy season. It has involved rehearsing with the choir for our “big” days of singing for the past five years. This year, it is also involving learning new tropes because I have decided that the time has come for me to chant regularly and learn how to do it properly.

It has also, invariably, meant I promise myself to do better than the previous year for most of the things I am invariously procrastinating on, getting better organized so that I don’t lose so much time looking for documents, meeting deadlines and finding my way through outgrown pieces of clothing for my boys. It has meant thinking deeply about my relationships with others, how I have been treating them, paying attention to their joys and sorrow, sharing with them or holding from them because I was shying off being completely honest with them and with my own feelings.

I then look at all the new things I have done during the past year to measure how I have fulfilled my past commitments. This year was such a busy one for me! My younger son reached bar-mitzvah age and what a transforming process it has been for the entire family, including my Jewish Family here!

I had also undertaken the task of managing the website‘s contents, as well as started this blog, not exactly figuring out what it would entail for me. Did I do well? did I do too much for what I can accomplish in a full day and not ruin everything? Did I respect everyone in the process? Did I hurt feelings? Was I vain and self-absorbed or did I give back as much as I wanted to?

This is a time of reflection, this is the time of being called upon soul searching. I can hear the blast of the shofar – please do come on Friday’s shabbat service to actually hear it this month! – reminding me that the time has come, and in my inbox, I see the counting of the days of Elul, because I subscribed to the Jewels of Elul VI to enjoy the multiple perspectives from a diverse array of people who celebrate the art of beginning again and again!

How do you prepare for the coming season? How do you mark a new year beginning? Do you have a ritual around beginnings that you can share? Please use the comments to do so!

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Elul is coming

Shofar blowing

Shofar blowing - www.ritualwell.org

Tomorrow will start the month of Elul. Like in the Spring we start getting ready and preparing for the liberation of Passover as the holiday of Purim is over, we now are getting ready for the liberation of our soul from the burden of what we did (or not) during the year. Elul marks the call to our consciences, a call to remind us to stop and think and reflect on the consequences of our choices, how we conduct our lives.

In a month the New Year and the start of the days of Awe, leading to the holiest of the holy days, Yom Kippur. It’s time to get on our feet and prepare for a good start, when we can clean our slate once again. What will our resolve be this year?

To prepare to receive the new year 5771, you can subscribe to the Jewels of Elul here, you will receive daily a collection of twenty-nine stories, musing and anecdotes on the Art of Beginning … again!

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schifftorahsetOn Shavuot, we celebrate matan Torah, when the Torah was received by the Israelites at Mount Sinai. The tradition recalls that the people accepted the commandments unconditionally, but they also had to give a guarantee that they would observe them. They first proposed that the Patriarchs would be the guarantors, but it was not accepted. Then, they suggested the Prophets to be a warrant, but yet again it was refused. So they said their children would be guarantee for their observance, and it was gladly accepted.

Our children are making us Jews, that is why it is so important that they learn about Judaism, as well as their fabulous history. This Tuesday May 18th, we celebrate the holiday of Shavuot, and will hear the Ten Commandments chanted from the Torah scroll at our synagogue. In our congregation, it is a tradition to also celebrate the confirmation of the students who chose to attend the confirmation class with our rabbi, and they present us with a very interesting personal essay on what is important to them in being Jewish.

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plateau_sederIt’s been quite a moment since I published a blogpost and I feel like this is really not right when so many things around me are in the spirit of the coming holiday. I know that we are always longing for this feeling, when Spring arrives and it is not early in our East coast State of NY! The trees are still too bare, the wind is still too chilly, the threat of yet another storm, rain or snow is still upon us (I remember some strange snow on an improbable April 7th or 8th when the previous day everyone was sunbathing and rejoicing at 63°F!!).

I can’t stop feeling like I am soon going to feel free, exactly the feeling that the Passover story brings to us. It’s  probably exacerbated by my sorting through the clothes, my cleaning up old spots that were in the dusty corners and got crammed with the usual children’s clutter. Spring cleaning has always been a family tradition, and I love it.

I am curious: how do you get ready for celebrating Passover?

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This week was parshah Ki-Tisa – Exodus 30:11-34:35
If you can’t read the whole parshah, try the haiku!

G-d does some hiring

Betzalel, Oholiab

The Mishkan builders

But the work must stop

Each week to observe Shabbat

It’s G-d’s day of rest

Originally posted in Ki Tisa | The Torah In Haiku.

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Purim invitation

Esther by Charles Filoni

Esther by Charles Filoni

If you are like me, with one of the beautiful Jewish Family Congregation calendars next to your other calendar(s) on your kitchen wall, you have like I did, received the “Purim invitation” if you didn’t forget to turn to the February pages.

Yes, Purim is around the corner, remind you February is a short month, and even though the persistent freezing weather is making it feel like it is endless, soon enough the joyous holiday is going to be upon us.

I will probably have many occasions to blog about Purim, so bear with me! But already, I wanted to remind you to mark your calendars for Sunday February 28, as JFC will be bustling with excitement nearly all day long, with the Purim Carnival first which this year will feature an exceptional attraction – the giant caterpillar -  that no child wants to miss!

The Carnival will be open from noon to 2:00 pm – and students in attendance for Religious School that morning will have their start at 11:00 am already. The bnai-mitzvah class of 2010 is getting ready to prepare the fun, so I might know more soon enough.

Also Purim service will be held at JFC at 6:30 pm that same Sunday February 28. It is a mitzvah (a commandment) to hear the meguilah (reading of the scroll of Esther), and to make noise to cover the cursed name of the wicked Haman (I am curious to know if we we have found where our groggers went, because if you recall well, last year, they had gone missing!). Another Purim tradition, that we have faithfully kept, is to hold a purimshpiel, so don’t miss the show that night, and come listen to My Fair Maidel!

But in the meantime, there will be lots to rejoice in anticipation about. Do you like baking? It’s certainly time to start thinking about, and come share your hamentashen recipes!

I was talking about the challah the other day, and here is a delicious recipe of a Purim Chocolate Chip Challah:

Purim Chocolate Chip Challah

So simple, so unique, so obvious and so good! Add some cocoa for a chocolate challah or leave it out. The vanilla is optional – the bread is excellent in its pure form or with a touch of vanilla in the dough.

1 1/2 cups warm water

2 tablespoons dry yeast

1/2 cup sugar

1/2 cup oil

3 eggs

2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract,

optional

3 tablespoons cocoa,

(for chocolate dough)

2 3/4 teaspoons salt

6-8 cups bread flour

1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

1/2 cup white chocolate chips

Egg wash and garnish

1 egg, whisked

Sugar for dusting top of bread

Generously spray one 5 by 12 inch loaf pan or two 9 by 5 inch loaf pans with non-stick cooking spray. You may also bake one or two freeform challah twists on a baking sheet.

In a large mixing bowl, briskly whisk together the water and yeast. Let stand to allow yeast to dissolve about 2 minutes. Add in two cups of the flour, and then briskly stir in the sugar, oil, eggs, vanilla, cocoa (if you are using it) and salt and most of the remaining flour. Mix, then knead on slowest speed of mixer to form a smooth but resilient dough (a soft but elastic bread dough). Add additional flour and knead – 8-10 minutes.

Let dough rest 15 minutes and then press out on a lightly floured work surface. Press the chocolate chips into the dough, with fingers or a rolling pin, folding over dough to cover the chips.

Let dough rest 10 minutes and then form the dough into a ball and place in a lightly greased bowl and place this in a plastic bag and seal loosely. Let rise until doubled, about 45 to 60 minutes.

Turn dough out onto a lightly floured work surface and gently deflate. Divide in 6 (for two medium breads) or in three (for one large bread).

Form each portion into a rope and braid three together to make a large braided bread.

Alternatively, you can form three balls of dough and place each beside each other in the prepared bread pans.

Whisk egg wash ingredients together. Brush on egg wash as thoroughly and generously as possible. As dough rises, you will have to reapply.

Place loaf pan(s) inside a large plastic bag to rise. Let rise until doubled or dough is puffy and has almost reached just above the top of the pan – 45 to 90 minutes. Brush tops again with egg wash and dust with sugar.

Preheat oven to 350 F. Place bread (s) in oven.

Bake 40-45 minutes until well browned. If top of bread starts browning too quickly (and bread interior is not done), cover lightly with a sheet of foil to protect top crust.

Cool in pan 10 minutes before removing and cooling on a rack.

Makes one large or two smaller loaves.

Serve with butter or honey or sweetened cream cheese (flavored with orange and cinnamon would be especially nice).

This recipe is reprinted with permission by Marcy Goldman, author of The 10th Anniversary Edition of A Treasury of Jewish Holiday Baking, Whitecap Books, 2009.
She is also the host and editor of www.BetterBaking.com and creates Kosher Cuisine with www.Clabbergirl.com.

In honor of Purim, Ms. Goldman has offered 3 free BetterBaking memberships! Send me your email address, and you will receive access to the recipe archives for you to browse. Don’t miss the offer!

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When you say or hear Shabbat, what comes first to your mind?

Lots of memories are filled with all senses, and hearing the word “Shabbat” may trigger your brain to recall immediately an image,  a sound, a smell, a taste, an emotion. Shabbat is a word that can encapsulate all of those, and that’s certainly one of the many beauties of it.

So next to Shabbat are you ready to put the word Shalom? or are you inclined to see this on a beautiful table? challah

A Challah! this is a very distinctive sign that Shabbat is here. Here is a recipe for you to prepare a particularly delicious Chocolate Chip Challah (on BabagaNewz.com (reprinted with permission from Chocolate Chip Challah and Other Twists on the Jewish Holiday Table by Lisa Rauchwerger).

This is one recipe. Do you have one? Would you like to share?

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